We don’t have to suddenly start trying to make everything about “intelligence”. You can be real about simply having some fluidity or contradictions or contending with hyper-sexuality or fetishes/paraphiliacs or having some attractions to a certain kind of person but having more romantic attachment, relationship fulfillment, commitment ambitions toward another type of person. While the same folks talking about “intelligence” will often end up seriously dating basic arm candy that’s dumb as box of rocks. But it really is starting to feel like a bunch of people just repeating the same lines as each other.
Like, yes, intelligence or wit can be attractive. I am getting a lil tired of this “I’m attracted to intelligence” stuff that’s become popular these last few years.
Of course, no one has any control over their attractions, and we should all know by now how individual sexuality is. But one thing insecure DL/in the queer spectrum black men are gonna do is stay trying to get “straight presenting” black male approval. It is disappointing that he decided to give this interview to a “straight presenting” guy who’s been known to say a lot of misogynistic and sometimes homophobic and queer-shaming shit throughout the years. It’s very cliche and aligns with a lot of the same old stuff we get from guys “coming out”, especially ones attaching to something non “gay”, but it is what it is. However, he honestly just sounds like he’s mirroring what some people around him have told him rather than actually speaking about his dimensions and struggles and journey. While everyone has their own thing when it comes to sexual dimensions, general preferences, struggles, motivations, insecurities, the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum. Plain ol’ bisexuality or pansexuality is still a thing). (But also, some people are just using “fluid” for anything. Of course, as I’ve said many times, fluidity is a real experience for many folks. “You said your family knew, your grandparents knew, your girl knew, but for the people who didn’t know, how do you identify today?” “So I have to ask you,” Budden says to Rashad during the sit-down. Now, in a new Patreon-exlusive interview with fellow rapper Joe Budden, Rashad is opening up even more.
“Y’all kept me alive these last couple months, so we’re going to keep this motherf*cker running.”
“I see all the messages and all that sh*t, all the positivity,” he said with a quiver in his voice. Standing before the cheering crowd, Rashad thanked his fans for their love and support. One voice-over clip stood out among the others: “The purpose of doing that was to embarrass him. Just before making his entrance, a video montage showed media commentary on the story. When his video leaked, his dreams and everything went up.” /xnPUzuftmT Isaiah Rashad’s intro video at Coachella: “The purpose of doing that was to embarrass him.
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